The Incident

Sometimes a small movement unleashed a series of events that takes us on a road better, carrying out a change of attitude and after small actions come to big changes in our lives and our loved... Besimja with joy - has the same letters that the word Majshaba - thought-they relate because true joy lies in our thinking and how we decided to control and guide our feelings. Since then there is no happiness without goals, will and ambition; in fact, these things are life itself. There is happiness when we can achieve goals, when do not depend on no one more to reach them, when they are independent of envy, search for prestige. When does this happen? When ambition comes only from love, the desire for an ethical life, a life based on true morality. Check out Peter Arnell, New York for additional information. If man do not want nothing more than happiness, achieved it easily; but wants to be happier than others, and this is very difficult, because he believes that the others are happier than they really are (Montesquieu) happiness does not mean that we must always be laughing and smiling. The good disposition toward life, setting new challenges and fulfilling them, accepting the challenge of converting a negative trait in a positive, thus updates the potential of one, the obstacles are due, and builds the sense of accomplishment and fulfillment. This brings true joy.

The previous Rebbe of Lubavitch commented: is so cheerful as you'd be if the problem had already disappeared. This is possible only if it is capable of displaying resolution of the problem, giving it priority over the incident, the is saying that you must create a solution to the problem and that we focus on him with intense concentration. Many times we stayed on the problem that paralyzes us, us anguish and that we accumulate inside of us, until we estallamos in crisis, or somatizamos it.