Listen And Understand The Child

Positive parenting - is an education that helps us parents find the strength to overcome life difficulties and to fully develop the internal capacity of our child. Let us consider in more detail this method. Try to keep your child feel that he works with you, not just obey, let him fight (if it occurs so desire). If the child has no right to resist, to argue and to negotiations, your request is in fact an order or requirement. Use the formula "is not whether to make you" or "Do, please." Do not skimp on the "please." Discard the rhetorical questions, explanations and lectures.

Do not accentuate your feelings. Try to formulate requests directly and positively as possible. Encourage children to join your work ("Let's do it then and then that"). To awaken the desire for a child Cooperation is not so difficult, but there need a good practice. Will be easier if instead of orders to use short requests.

I suggest that you model for exercise: Order: Get your stuff. Request: Gimme shalt in this room. Do not expand if you have things in places? Order: Do not leave it there. Request: Let's put things in place. Have you not put it in the closet? In order that the child has awakened the spirit of cooperation, he must again and again to make sure that you listen to him as he listens to you. A clear and strong sense of self "is formed in a child, mainly through manifesting from time to time the resistance to your will.